A man who GETS it!
A paraphrased summary of a male friend's entry:
What a woman values
1. Being an equal partner. She is not your master, NOR your slave. She is your equal in every way.
2. Kindness
3. Being respected
4. Being cherished
5. Being thought of
6. Consideration. Pay her some attention during the day, and she will pay you consideration at night.
7. The knowledge that you see her as beautiful
8. When you value her values.
9. Remembering special dates
10. When you show her that you love her. She already knows it, but a reminder of it never hurts.
11. Simple, non-sexual touching. When she comes home from work, give her back a rub, then sit her down and cuddle for a while.
12. When you realize she's smart enough to figure out her own problems. She just needs to talk herself to a solution, so listen while she talks about her day, without interrupting to TELL her the solution. Maybe while you're cuddling.
13. When you don't take her for granted. She could be with someone else right now, but she chose you. Respect that!
14. If you have children, HELP her get them out of the car!!
Connie
2008-02-15 at 6:06 p.m.
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Previously
2008-05-23: Mum-Mum
2008-04-03: The. Fuck.
2008-03-06: 03-06
2008-02-25: Oscar night
2008-02-21: Kitten vid
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